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Have you ever sat down and thought about 'One-Way Call' friends? These are the friends you have who you only see when you give them a call. Maybe they do call you once in a while, but the odds are that for every ten or fifteen times you call them, you're lucky if they call you even once, if at all.

How are you supposed to read this sort of person? I have about as many of these as I do fingers, and I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me. Most of them are not people who I have a close connection with, but in at least two cases, they are people that I consider fairly close friends of mine.

What does it say about a friendship when only one of the two ever initiates anything? Is it possible to have a very strong friendship under those circumstances? Can people simply claim that they aren't pro-active as an excuse?

Good questions, though I'm afraid that none of the answers are what I would hope for.

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  1. Bz 18 Apr 11 at 10:10

    Well..i know what you mean and i also have a few "friends" who never call but i don't really call either so that would also make me one of them but than again i'm also a bit independent.there are times when i need people around me but most of the time i just like to go rogue have a good time on my own..perhaps meet some new folk.i guess you should stop calling them..be patient if they want your company they'll call

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